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Update

I'm currently working on combining both of the blogs I currently have. I have many things to update but I want to settle into a manageable one-blog situation before I start going over my experiences since the race.

5k

Well, I finished the 5k this morning in 32:49

Studying, also running

A student is not an individual enrolled in classes or even someone who attends classes. A student is one who studies. Studies subjects and concepts not "for exams." The end is not a grade it is knowledge and understanding of subjects and disciplines that can be used. Exams are only tools to determine to what extent the discipline and subject has bee understood. I too often confuse the priority of learning with that of getting an A or graduating.

I'm setting a goal: to wake up before classes early enough to read about what my classes cover each day. I don't want to study for exams I want to review what I've already studied. To aid me in this endeavor I've enlisted the help of coffee, hence the cup picture. (I just realized I don't know how to properly use the word "hence" but I'm leaving it in anyway.)

The 5k is Saturday.

I'm stoked.

A little nervous too.

I hope I don't have too much trouble with my legs; it is a long run.

I'm going to finish regardless; I would just prefer to be able to walk afterward.

So, I'm running.

So this semester I set out to begin to run for exercise. I was met immediately with disappointment. After the first run I developed a sore that lasted over a month. It made everyday walking very painful and school was a very hard thing to get through each day. By the 15th of February my legs had begun to heal. I also discovered that AirBorne helps my skin tissue. Much more than that God showered his grace on me. On Friday I tried running because it felt like the first legitimate spring day. I only made it .85 miles, but i ran .85 miles! The next morning was beautiful again and I ran the same distance. Then Monday I ran a full mile. Wednesday 2 miles. Monday (this past one now the 1st of March) I ran 2.5 miles in about 25 minutes and today I ran 3 miles in about 33 minutes! I'm set to run a 5k soon i think. I would really like to work toward running a half marathon.

In other news, I have had a person tell me that they are going to pay for my plane ticket to India this summer. I am going to go to work with HIV and AIDS patients for 6-8 weeks depending on how the schedule gets laid out. I'm very excited for this opportunity as well! God has been bringing me through some very trying times. I feel like he has given me a breather so to speak but its impossible for me to accurately describe how hard the past two months have been on a day to day basis spiritually as much as physically. He is still good and just...He is everything I hope Him to be.

-caleb

Missed appointment

This is just to inform you that Caleb locked his keys in his car & had no spare & missed his appointment with the hand specialist in Chatt. It will be up to him to reschdule. I have reached the end of my part of his journey. I have completely turned the rest over to him. If he chooses to have surgery, he is suppose to let me know, but there really is nothing else for me to do......I thank you all so much for the many thoughts & prayers that helped us through a very difficult time in our lives. And I pray that our journey pointed you toward our Lord..........Love, Tami

Moving Quickly

Things are moving a little quickly. In the course of talking with Caleb's school about dates for trying to schedule appointments, I was given a recommendation for a hand Dr in the Chatt. area. This would be so much more convenient for Caleb, so I am in the process of setting things up down there. Please pray that things would continue to go well. They are falling into place so far & I am excited to get this last leg of Caleb's road to a conclusion. I will keep you posted as to if/when there would be a surgery. We are hoping for the week of Oct 4-9. Thank you for all your prayers & support. We love you all! Tami

MAYO

Well, we really don't know much more.......Dr Spinner said there is nothing neurosurgery can do for him........He is referring him to a hand reconstruction specialist. Caleb ran out of time to meet with this Dr. He needed to get to the airport to catch his flight home to TN. It's such a difficult time of year. He's very busy with school. We will check into making an appointment with this Dr during a break in Caleb's school schedule........Thank you for your continued prayers.....

Mayo

Well, Caleb was at Mayo on Friday for tests. It was mentioned to him that there is a possibility that there is other damage in the left arm, between the elbow & the wrist. We won't know if there is or what the results are until he goes in on Tuesday. If you read this, please continue to pray. We are trusting that God is Good & He is still Sovereign........we just need to trust Him in ALL things! Love, Tami

From Caleb in India

http://andi-sheba.blogspot.com/2009/07/stepping-out.html
the man i met in Mumbai at his AIDS clinic wrote this

Mayo

We have heard from the Mayo Clinic! Caleb will fly to MN from TN on Sept 4th for testing & then rent a car & drive to NE for Labor Day weekend. Then back to MN on Tuesday for a consultation with the neurosurgeon on what they think they can or cannot do for him. Then he will fly back to TN. It's hard to believe we are on the last "leg" of this Road to Recovery! It has been an Amazing Road & God has been so good! Please continue to pray that His will be done concerning Caleb's hand mobility! Of course, mom would like to see as much restored as possible, but Caleb has made peace with the amount of mobility he has at the moment. That's a GOOD thing! I will plan to post again what we learn from the Mayo Clinic. Thank you all for your prayers!!! LOTS of Love, Tami & Family

Mayo Clinic

I still have not heard from the Mayo clinic. I've left a couple of messages with the Dr in Omaha & I realize that it's vacation time of year, so I am trying my best to be patient. Caleb has agreed that we need to get him in to the Mayo clinic, but as slow as this process is, we are just hoping to avoid school & if not, we'll see if they will work with him in missing a little school. I think they will. Well, I need to go. We are working on the phone system at the Middle School so I need to go. God's Grace is AMAZING!!! Love, Tami

Mayo Clinic

Sorry it's taken so long for me to post. We have heard from the neurosurgeon. They are referring Caleb to the Mayo Clinic. As Caleb is in TN, I called him & told him what they had to say. He was busy with friends & didn't want to talk about it much. He wants to use the $300 voucher he got from the airlines to go see Uncle Josh & Aunt Kristie. He wants the Mayo Clinic to work around his schedule to go see them (Josh & Kristie) & then go to India again before school starts. Soooo, because he's 21, it's best that I turn this over to him. I will give them his cell phone number when they call & he will have to make the arrangements to go to Mayo. Emotionally, mom wishes he was under 18 & had to do what I tell him, but he's not.......Just pray that God will have his way in this situation. I can only do so much! Thank you for all your prayers. Love, Tami

PLEASE Pray

Please continue to pray. I just got off the phone with the neurosurgeon's assistant. At this point it's not looking very good for surgery. The Dr has been discussing Caleb's case with other Dr's and they are afraid to disrupt the blood supply to that muscle flap transplant. The Dr still is going to talk to another specialist next week, so please pray that there might be something more they think they can do. I was so hoping there would be a little more mobility restored to his left hand. Thank you! Love, Tami

Long time

I apologize that it's been so long since I've written. With Caleb having his own Blog at www.calebbaber.blogspot.com and no real new news from the neurosurgeon, it's been easy to just be busy with "life". And that's a good thing. Life is so precious and truly a gift from God. Anyway, I do ask that you continue to pray that when we do get news from the neursurgeon, that he feels he can help Caleb. I am hoping to know something the second week of June. I promise to update you all as soon as I know something. I do ask for prayer for some friends of Todd & I's that were in a motorcycle accident. They have a rough road also. Thank you for all your support over the last 8 months!!! Love, Tami

Amazing

Caleb stopped in to say Hi before going to Lincoln to see the prosthetic people & as he walked down the hall to my office, I couldn't tell that he was walking on prosthetics!!! He walking was so smooth. I guess I am impressed because he hasn't had both of them for very long. He said he actually had to tell someone he had met over the weekend that he did not have feet. It's hard to put into words how this makes me feel! I thank you all so much for your prayers. Caleb's road keeps getting a little shorter! :) Love, Tami

Neurosurgeon

Caleb & I went to the neurosurgeon yesterday. He's ordered an MRI to see if he can find both ends of the nerves that are not working. If he can find them, the next consideration is whether or not he can operate on the muscle flap without damaging it. It needs to keep it's blood supply, etc. Then the last consideration will be, where to get the nerves. They normally get them from the lower leg.........
He will start with the MRI results & let us know if we can proceed from there. If we can, the first part of June he is going to talk to one of the top specialists in the country and ask for advice on how to proceed and then he will let us know from there.
Please pray that God will have His perfect will in this situation & be glorified! Thanks!!!

Caleb is walking!! :)

I just got a phone call from Caleb. He went to get his left leg today & he is walking around with no crutches, no cane, just his own 2 feet!! It has taken so long to get to this point....I just had to share!! Thanks!!!

A New Phase in the Journey

Caleb has an appointment in Lincoln today to get his left leg!!! Who Hoo!!! He will stay in Lincoln tonight & walk with his leg & then tomorrow he has an appointment with the burn Dr to check & see how well the skin graft holds up. Please pray for the skin graft to hold up well & that Caleb will enjoy his newly found freedom!! He is very ready to be able to walk with 2 legs & is making plans to try to snowboard here in the next few weeks! I think he's biting off a little too much, but I've never been able to slow that kid down before, so I don't expect that it's changed that much!! Thank You for your continued support & prayers!! We are so Blessed to have so many praying for him!!! Love, Tami

Quick Update

I just wanted to give a quick little update. On Thursday the 16th, Caleb is suppose to go to Lincoln & get fitted for his left leg. We are hoping next week he will have it. It'd be nice to have it for his birthday on the 22nd! He also has an appointment with the neurosurgeon on the 22nd. He's getting around quite well, and busy making plans for his summer.

I will never be able to Thank You enough for all your prayers throughout Caleb's Road to Recovery. I know we are not there yet and I think I will periodically post as things progress. We love you all so much! Thanks!! Love, Tami

my blog is: http://calebbaber.blogspot.com/ so that's where I will blog from now on, and don't expect it to be twitter or some other instantaneous where's caleb machine. thank you all for all your support through this entire experience.

Update

Well, I thought I'd better post an update. Caleb did end up getting a vehicle. He was very excited to get a Nissan pickup. It's a nice little truck. The height makes it much easier to get in & out of than a car. We are praying as parents that it serves him well to get back to TN in the fall! He also went to see the Dr on Monday & got half of his staples removed. He's healing o.k. but it's just taking a little slower than he had hoped, but overall.....we can't complain.......We've passed the 6 month mark & looking backwards, it's really quite amazing he's come so far!!! God has been so good to all of us through this entire journey! I am again going to try to turn the reighs of this blog over to my son, but as you can tell, I am a classic enabler, soooooo I have to keep working on it!! Thank you so much for all your prayers & thoughts & support!!! Love, Tami

Spoke at Salvation Army Banquet

Originally published Friday March 27, 2009

Caleb did on awesome job speaking at the Salvation Army Banquet last night!! I've heard him talk about everything he said, but putting it in order & hearing it sure made me cry!! We are so truly Blessed! He is alive & God has given him such Peace about the Goodness of God. He is an inspiration to me too!! I am more & more in love with God's Grace every day!

Sometimes I can't believe he does what he does. Out of the hospital on Tuesday. Had a Dr's appointment on Wed in Lincoln (everything looked good on the left leg, but it is SLOW healing!) Then he decided to stay in Lincoln as Doug Shippee (from DFN) and crew were in town. And spoke at the banquet last night! He's been in more pain than he thought, but he is slowly recovering!

Caleb is hoping to get a vehicle today. He's been borrowing a junker from his dad these last couple of weeks, but it's JUNKER!!!! Please pray that God would have His hand on this decision. He's taking it to our mechanic to look at today & we will go from there.

I must close, work is getting busy! Thank you for all the prayers that have been lifted up on Caleb's behalf!!! Love, Tami

Home

Caleb came home from the hospital yesterdya afternoon. He didn't look so hot, but cuddled with the heating pad & made it through the night. This morning he had a burn Dr appointment in Lincoln. Grandma & Grandpa Goodwater took him. On his way down he found out that Doug Shippee, DFN would be in Lincoln & there were going to get together, so now he is spending the night in Lincoln.........must be doing better!!! Thank you so much for your prayers! They mean so much to us!!! Love, Tami

Reality

Well, this process is going to be more painful and prolonged than I thought. I am getting out of the hospital today, please pray for strength as the pain isn't really affect by pain meds. I am going to try to just get back to any activities I can. Wow, this is kind of a downer of a post. On the other hand I do get to speak on thursday which is very exciting!

Trying to come home!

We are waiting to see the Dr so that he can release Caleb to come home. He's in a little more pain because they've taken him off the pump pain medication. There's just a lot of movement his body isn't really used to. Please keep that in prayer! Praise the Lord in everything!!! Love, Tami

Good news

Well I pooped. And then I ate. Praise God!

Things are moving!

Well, we got a text from Caleb. Things are moving, so hopefully he'll be able to come home soon!! Who-hoo!!! Thank you for all your prayers throughout this weekend. Mom was trying really hard not to worry!!! But I have to admit, I feel much better!! We'll go back up to the hospital again later & check on him. Thank you and thank the Lord again!!! Love, Tami

Still waiting...

I still have not passed anything not even gas. I have not had a fever though so that is a very good indicator of whether it has become something bad or not. I guess my only option is to wait patiently and trust God that I'll be able to eat eventually. Please continue to pray for me, I am nothing outside of Christ but in Him I have found the strength to walk through harder things than this.

Also, I get pretty bored up here in the hospital so if anyone wants to visit they should feel free.

Thanks everybody,

caleb
cbaber@dalitnetwork.org
caleb.baber@gmail.com

Awake

Well my being awake at 3 in the morning is not a good thing obviously. I woke up because of the pain and swelling I think so please pray for rest. Also, I have not yet passed anything not even gas. It is not neccessarily a bad thing.as my bowel has been asleep for 5 months but it is definitely something that needs to start happening. Thank you all again for your prayers and support through the journey!

caleb
cbaber@dalitnetwork.org
caleb.baber@gmail.com

Please continue to Pray

We are asking that you please continue to pray for Caleb's ostomy reversal. Things haven't started really moving yet. He is able to start to drinking clear liquids today, but things haven't begun moving yet. We are trying not to worry, but after the original surgery failed back in October, we are a little anxious that it is taking so long. Or so it seems so long to us. We are just asking that you continue to keep it in prayer!! I Pet 1:7 It is Friday! Hope you all have a GREAT weekend!! Love, Tami

Walking!

I felt horrible this morning but they adjusted my meds and I was able to walk around the loop in the hospital. This afternoon I walked all the way outside and around the parking lot!

Oh My son!!

Yes, they removed his appendix too, but that was to prevent them having to go in again if he had a need to. As Doug Shippee pointed out, it was a freebie!! Surgery went well. They removed some adhesions also & untwisted the intestines & hooked him all back up. He is awake & being a smart aleck as you can tell. The Dr expects him to do well & we are hoping to have him home on Sunday. We want to thank you all so very much for your continued prayers. He has come so far & we are so grateful! Thank You!! Love, Tami

They stole my appendix!

All's well

From caleb

Hi all,

I'm up late before my surgery, I know all you moms out there probably are cringing but that's ok. I am at peace with the surgery and am fully confident in Gods hands as He will most certainly be guiding the surgeons. Please lift up the recovery time and also that I'll be able to make the most of all the down time I'll have while there in the hospital. Thank you all for your prayers and support!

caleb
cbaber@dalitnetwork.org

There are many titles for today's update, but.....

Hi All, I thought I would update you. Caleb is having surgery at Faith Regional (Lutheran) at Noon On Wednesday. He is getting his ostomy reversed & is VERY excited to get this done. He is having Dr. Buetler do the surgery. Please pray that God will guide his hands & decisions involving surgery. Today, he has a 3:30 presurgery appointment. He had a CT Scan last week so Dr can see what's gong on inside and I gave him the records that we had from Vanderbilt. The insurance company approved 7 days in the hospital, but they didn't think he would be there past the weekend. Lucky for him, several of his friends are home on Spring Break & can visit. I am only taking off the day of surgery. Caleb told me not to take off any more than that & I will just check on him after work. Thank you all for your prayers! Our God is such an Amazing God! Todd pointed out last night that we are almost at the 6 month anniversary. It's hard to believe that much time has gone by & how far Caleb has truly come. I know for Caleb, things don't always move fast enough. Thank you again for everything!! Love, Tami

Spring Break visitors

Hi all, I'm not sure how soon Caleb will get to updating the blog. He has Carmen & Katie (friends from college) here visiting over Spring Break. He has REALLY been enjoying their company. LOTS of late night talking. He is suppose to have his ostomy reversed on March 18th. If you would lift that up to the Lord, we would appreciate your prayers!! Love, Tami

All's Well on leg

Just got a call from Caleb, all is well with his leg. This particular cream can have this affect on people. They gave him a new cream and some prescriptions for his kerlix, etc. But all is well!!! Thanks for the prayers. :)
Please keep him in prayer on the 18th of March. He will be having his ostomy reversed if all goes well. A couple of his friends from TN are here on Spring Break & they are planning to organize a fast for Caleb's appointment with a neurosurgeon on March 30th. We are begging God to give him some function with his left hand. If you want more details, I will get them to you, as I hear of them. Thanks again!! Love, Tami

check this out!

so if you don't have facebook, you should get it and get involved

http://apps.facebook.com/causes/1864/46779775?m=cc366e79

caleb
cbaber@dalitnetwork.org

Update on Appt

I just talked to Caleb & he is needing to go see the burn Dr about his leg. They are trying to make the appointment for tomorrow. Please pray that God would put His healing had upon his leg. He is suppose to go in tomorrow to get a CT scan about his ostomy reversal & we are praying that we will not have to reschedule that. I will keep you posted......again thanks for any & all prayers! Love, Tami

Prayer Request

I just wanted to take a minute to ask everyone to pray for Caleb's left leg and his spirits. When he went to the Dr. on Wednesday his leg looked a little iffy, so they put him on an antibiotic and some cream. His leg is looking like he might be allergic to the cream, although he's had this cream before. He's at the Dr's office now & I am waiting to hear from him. Needless to say, his spirits are a little low. If you would hold him up to the throne of Grace, I would appreciate it!!! Love, Tami

Well, I'm back

Hey everyone,

Sorry for such a lack of communication while I was gone. I appreciate all your prayers!

Well, it went very well. No falls or bugs. I did get exhausted but would have been disappointed if I hadn't. I don't really know how to put the experience down in writing but would love to get any questions from all of you.

Thats right, Hard Rock Hyderabad.

Well thanks again everyone,

caleb

Home

Well, Caleb's feet are again on NE soil! We are thankful that he made it home & we can't wait to hear about his trip. I don't "do" facebook, so I don't know alot of what he's put on that. I've been told that he has kept up quite well on facebook & posted many pictures. I'll have to wait for the "real thing". I just wanted to praise the Lord for brining him safely back home again!!!! Love, Tami

So Doug asked me to post this picture

Song I promised........

By Your Side” by Tenth Avenue North
Why are you striving these days Why are you trying to earn grace Why are you crying Let me lift up your face Just don't turn away Why are you looking for love Why are you still searching as if I'm not enough To where will you go child Tell me where will you run To where will you run And I'll be by your side Wherever you fall In the dead of night Whenever you call And please don't fight These hands that are holding you My hands are holding you Look at these hands and my side They swallowed the grave on that night When I drank the world's sin So I could carry you in And give you lifeI want to give you life (Chorus 2x) Cause I, I love you I want you to know That I, I love you I'll never let you go
It is an AWESOME video if you can watch it!! Love, Tami

Good Morning!

Hi all,
I thought I'd post a link to the newspaper article that my sister-in-law forwarded to me. It brought tears to my eyes.
http://www.pvtrib.com/main.asp?SectionID=74&subsectionID=407&articleID=49425
Caleb is getting the word out about his kids in India in many ways. I am looking forward to seeing the video that he has to put together & hearing about his trip. Please continue to pray that God would give him extraordinary strength.
I've been told that he is also speaking at the Salvation Army Banquet later in March. It's kinda fun to see God move in so ways.
I am also looking forward to Carmen & Katie coming for Spring Break. Please pray for safe travel for them.
Todd is learning a new song to play on his guitar at church. The lyrics are really cool & when I get them, I will post them. I think you will appreciate them. When I look back on the last few months, I cannot get over God's Amazing Grace.....I loved it before, but I am in awe of it more & more everyday! Thank you for traveling this road with us! Love, Tami

Well, I'm here....in India

It's a little harder to find internet here in Mumbai than I thought it would be. I am at the OM office now though, working on Windows 98 in case you were wondering. It does what I need for this at least, no pictures today though.

I'll begin with the trip here. I thought I would have a problem as traveling to the other side of the planet last time left me exhausted and hardly able to function. I found the exact opposite to be true. God gave me incredible strength to get through Denver International without a wheelchair and to the back of the first plane on crutches. I was expecting a little help but got none in the form of changing my seat. Then about 24 hours latter I was able to walk up the stairs of the hotel and get to bed in time for about 3 hours of sleep. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it went very well.

We went to the slum on sunday for church and worshipped with our Indian brothers and sisters for about 2 and a half hours. I was struck with the power of the prayers I heard and the testimonies told. God moves in hearts regardless of location, language, class or caste!

caleb

The Office

We'll, I apologize for missing last night. My computer died and I forgot my charger at the office.

Wednesday was incredibly busy. I was asked to share my story with the office in the morning prayer time. It was the first time I had told my entire story to a group. It was hard in some ways but God totally freed me to speak with passion and clarity. I was then asked to speak 3 more times that day to different audiences all under a dozen or so people. It was encouraging to see my story take shape throughout the day, seeing it become more effective with less tangents every time.

That night I went with one of the lady's from the office to speak to her small group which was part of a much larger youth group. They had a time of praise at the beginning that culminated in the Newsboys' song "I Am Free." The chorus goes a like this:

I am free to run
I am free to dance
I am free to live for You
I am free

here's a video with the lyrics:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vwnGYfeilE

I couldn't even get passed the first line for a long time.....it was overwhelming, it brought me to tears that flowed and flowed...I mean, I'm not free to run or dance. It wasn't out of bitterness or pain but just genuine sorrow for what I had lost as an expression of my freedom in Christ. God brought me through the sorrow and into Hope and the last time through I was able to sing every word with all of my being, that I am FREE to live for Him...there's nothing else to it. God gave me some words recently that I shared with a dear friend and now I'll share with you all: "A good summation of what God has shown me through all of this is that you cannot lose any vital thing with which you are meant to honor Him." I believe that I'll again be able to run and dance but never again will I be able to do either without an incredible understanding of what each means and that every stride or step can be made honoring Him.

To move away from that incredible time where God met me, and into the time spent at the office. I've done two main things. I have busted my butt to get a clear vision for the video we're attempting to shoot while there. I have also been a brain to pick for Stasia who is heading the creation of Student Advocacy. I have enjoyed every minute of working with and around all at the office and wish I had much more time to spend working with them. I, for the first time since being injured, poured out myself into something outside of me and my recovery. It was awesome. It was a God-thing.

Now, I'm re-packing for the trip to India. I am very excited but also painfully aware of my limitations in both mobility and endurance. Please hold me and the body God has given me before His throne asking for every grace and strength to be poured out on me for His glory. I cannot complete even the journey there let alone the adventure waiting and the journey home without Him.

Thank you all for your support and prayers throughout my recovery and now in this trip back to India....back to the boys that God put on my heart three years ago almost to the very day!

caleb

Let the Journey begin

Hello everyone,

This is Caleb. I'm in Denver now. I got in with no trouble flying at all. Doug and I had lunch and then we just jumped right in at DFN's offices. Got to meet everyone and now know the others going on the trip with us. Got a few ideas for the video we're going to try to make while there. All in all it was a good day, kinda on the long side but I'm sure there's more where that came from. Well, I'll try to update daily for this trip but I'm not making any promises.

caleb

Long Time

It's been a long time, so I thought I'd update you. Caleb called me on Thursday Feb 5th & was upset because he bit off more than he could handle at this time by taking full time college credits. He's decided to withdraw. I know this was not easy for him.

We are still working on getting things changed to move home. The burn Dr does not come to Norfolk, so Caleb will need transportation to those appointments until we find a vehicle for him. It's not been an easy task. Rehab here in town shouldn't be very difficult to get lined up. I've got the paperwork started. The burn Dr told him about March 11th he should be ready for his left prosthetic.

Caleb got the final approval to go to India today. He is VERY excited! He wants to see those boys he has been supporting. Thanks to everyone who has helped him continue that support. Josh 3:13. We will keep walking forward, as the Lord leads. He has provided our every need thus far, I remind myself not to get weary. My Todd is very good at taking care of me.

We were given a referral for a neurosurgeon in Omaha. We also can get a referral to the Mayo Clinic for Caleb's left hand if it's needed. I will be trying to set that up while he's in India along with his ostomy reversal surgery. There is still a long way to go and lots for me to do.

Thank you all for your support! God has been sooooo good to us! Love, Tami

From Mom

I want to thank you Caleb, for posting. I appreciate anything you do to lighten the load!! I would like to let people know that Caleb is wanting to move home. He has been having so much fun hanging out with his friends that are here in town. And driving his little brother's vehicle. And going out to lunch with you, Lori.....First we need to see if the burn Dr comes to Norolk. Then we will get the ball rolling on our end. Line up therapy etc. Please be in prayer about this, that we would get everything lined up that needs taken care of. That we would be able to find a vehicle that Caleb can afford, so that he is able to get himself from point A to point B. Todd's & my job have been overly generous with letting us off work, but it would be SOOO helpful if Caleb is able to get himself around. We are trusting that God knows exactly what we need & we are trying to be patient & "know that I am God" .............I can never thank you enough for your prayers!!! Work has gotten busy, so I must go! Thank You again!!! Love, Tami

A little late

Well, I suppose I should talk about the surgery last wednesday since it's almost been a week. It went well, it took a while for me to feel good enough to leave, longer than normal anyway. I'm fine though. They casted it fully. Guess they don't trust me not to fall on it. I drove a bunch, it's going really well!

Driving?

Hey Everyone!

Thought I'd let you all know that I was able to pass all of the requirements for me to be able to drive with absolutely no restrictions! This is a huge blessing and freedom that I hope to put to good use. Thanks for all your prayers!

caleb

Update.....FINALLY!

Sorry to all of you out there who have continued to come here to hear the news of yours truely (Caleb that is), I am finding it hard to maintain my Facebook and online studies as well as a blog. In any case, I want you all to know I appreciate your thoughts, prayers, calls, cards, and visits. I have found out from all of you and your support of me and my family that I am one of the luckiest guys in the world.

Well I suppose a proper update is in order:

I just got back home from the airport here in Omaha. I went to Arizona with my brother, mom, and step-dad Todd. It is my first experience in commercial flying since being injured. All in all I can say it was a very good experience. I wasn't sure how everything would work out, but everyone working for the airlines helped out above and beyond what I could have asked for. The flight itself was just like all the other times, I didn't find that the altitude affected me at all. The trip itself was very taxing though.

You're probably wondering 'well thats nice but why the heck were you going to Arizona?' Well, a very special lady had a birthday that I wasn't planning on missing. My step- Grandma Dora turned the big 75. I was one of the lucky grandkids that surprised her with our being there. I am very glad that God enabled me to make the trip.

I was also able to spend Saturday evening with a dear friend, Nate Purdum. We spent an hour or so out on this beautiful lake. It was very significant for me because it was the first time I got to be out doors. The view was spectacular, and the conversation even better.

While down in AZ I had a second interview with a newspaper. The Tribune I think for you Arizonians around Dewey and/or Prescott. It was good to get to share my heart for the Dalit people with her more than my journey up this recovery hill.

Speaking of India I am very excited as my mom has already said about the opportunity to go. I ask you to pray to the Great Physician to heal my leg to the extent that my doctors are at ease with sending me as well as His continued protection while in India with all of the bugs I'll run into. A little more info for the trip: I may have the opportunity to spend a few days in Denver at the Dalit Freedom Network's headquarters, I think I'll be getting a 10 year visa for India which will come in handy countless times, I will get to see my boys as my mom said, and now I have experience in commercial travel. I'm most excited to see my boys Bhargav, Sai Kumar, Sai Kiran, and Raju Pulli. I didn't get to meet all of them on my first trip and I miss Bhargav a lot. I was tinking about it and I don't know if I'll have the strength or not but I really would like to have another picture with him on my shoulders. It's overwhelming for me to talk about him sometimes. He represents so many things to me but especially Hope and Courage in my own life and in his. Please pray for this opportunity.

I suppose I can also share that I am having a driving evaluation on Tuesday. We'll figure out to what extent I will need adjustments if any to a vehicle to be able to drive safely. I am very excited about the prospect of driving again with all of its freedom.

I hope you all are able to find nothing more or less than Christ in this post.

Sara Groves - I Saw What I Saw

I saw what I saw and I can't forget it
I heard what I heard and I can't go back
I know what I know and I can't deny it

Something on the road, cut me to the soul

Your pain has changed me
your dream inspires
your face a memory
your hope a fire
your courage asks me what I'm afraid of
and what I know of love

we've done what we've done and we can't erase it
we are what we are and it's more than enough
we have what we have but it's no substitution

Something on the road, cut me to the soul

Your pain has changed me
your dream inspires
your face a memory
your hope a fire
your courage asks me what I'm made of
and what I know of love

I say what I say with no hesitation
I have what I have and I'm giving it up
I do what I do with deep conviction

Something on the road, cut me to the soul

Your pain has changed me
your dreams inspire
your face a memory
your hope a fire
Your pain has changed me
your dream inspires
your face a memory
your hope a fire
your courage asks me what I'm afraid of
your courage asks me what I'm made of
your courage asks me what I'm afraid of
and what I know of love
and what I know of God

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Courage.
Christ.
Redeemed to what end?
To be like the world,
To accumulate "cheap crap quick"
Things that will be worthless in eternity?
For the Joy that was set before Him did He suffer...
Do we realize what that means?
For Him Joy was to know YOU,
to see YOU living in Redeemed, free to love with no reserve



in some ways this song describes my hearts unyielding passion for the downcast....I saw, heard, and know the pain of this world but know that He suffered so that my life, my heart, my very soul can be free from sin, Justified, and able to enter into His Redemption of my heart and His creation.

Another surgery :(

Caleb just called not too long ago & he needs more work done on the left leg. So it's back to surgery next Wed in Lincoln at 7:30 am. I am disappointed. This is surgery #17. I was really hoping that he would be done except for his ostomy surgery. As a coworker so graciously pointed out, at least he's here to have the surgeries.............thanks Jenn.

Thank you for all your prayers. An update on the left hand. It still is not working. I don't know when/if he should go see a specialist, but please keep that in your prayers too. We really appreciate it!!! LOve, Tami

Update

Well, I can see that my son has not posted an update for quite awhile. KIDS!!!! Let's see if I can remember what I should. On Wednesday after I talked to Caleb he fell outside Border's in Omaha & his leg started to bleed. His step mom took him back to Lincoln for the Dr to look at and evidently all was O.K. I remind myself that there are going to be falls. But I still hate it. Probably more so now than when he was learning to walk the first time. He didn't have as far to fall when he was little!!!

Caleb was invited to go to India at the end of February with Doug Shippee, the President of Dalit Freedom Network. He's checked with all of his Dr's & they have given the O.K. as long as there are no "open" wounds. They are going to see the first graduating class from the school. Caleb is extremely excited about this trip. He wants to see "his boys" again. I am sure this trip will post several challenges for him, but as I've said before, he is a determined young man.

This morning he has another appointment with the burn Dr at 10:30. His aunt Theresa is taking him to this one. I will post more when I hear from Caleb after his appointment.

I stumbled upon another blog that Caleb had started back in Feb. The title amazed me: o, to grace how great a debtor ............I didn't have time to read a lot of it, but one line in particular jumped out at me. "Perhaps one day, I will look back and see a path that God led me down that leads to the place of understanding and wisdom that I am looking for in my present. For now, Jesus must be my guide to understanding Him and me in clarity, honesty, and truth. "

I must get back to work! I will encourage Caleb to keep in touch better!!! Thank you for all your thoughts, & prayers!! I can never say that enough!!! Love, Tami

Appointment for skingraft

I talked to Caleb earlier. His stepmom Tammy took him to this appointment, which I GREATLY appreciate!!!! The bottom of the skingraft looks GREAT, but the top of the skingraft isn't doing so well. It's probably from the fall at the senior high. I don't know exactly what that means, Caleb was not full of information. They did put something on it & rebandaged it. That's really all I know.

I hope you are managing to keep warm if you are anywhere near this COLD/Frigid NE weather. I also pray that God ministers to all our hearts and that we continue to learn to lean on Him. In Him, Love, Tami

Full time Student

I just wanted to let you know that Caleb is going to be a full-time student again!!! I didn't think he would be able to "sit out" too much. He's a pretty determined young man. He is taking some online & independent classes. They have waived some of the restrictions on things for him because of the medical issues involved, which we are very Thankful for. He was so excited when I came home from work yesterday. I just wanted to share that info with you all!!!!

Have a GREAT weekend!!!
Love, Tami

Glimmer

I am at work & "While I'm waiting" is playing on my CD player and I wanted to share how God gave me a glimmer today to keep trusting & praying.

Today when Caleb put on his glove to attach his left hand to his crutches, he said "ouch". Then he looked up at me and said "That's weird" I said "No that's GOOD!!!! I will keep praying!!!

He also biffed it for the first time. At the Senior High, (he wanted to go see Miss Henre) they have a really bad/slick floor when you enter the building and Caleb's crutch went right out from under him & he fell. There was no water on the floor, so I was surprised. He seems O.K. but my heart jumped!!!

Gotta get back to work! Thanks!!! Love, Tami

Things went well

I just wanted to let you know that things went well with Caleb's skingraft yesterday. He is in a little more pain because they took donor skin from him, but he's home in Norfolk until the weekend. It was recommended that he forego rehab this week while things heal.

Thank you for your prayers & support. He's doing so well. God has been so good & I am continuing to trust His healing power on Caleb's left hand. I am asking that God restore full mobility in that hand. "You have not because you ask not"

Love, Tami

I just want everyone to know that for Wednesday through Friday I walked everywhere with my crutches, no wheelchair at all. It is the first time i have felt like I'm making real progress for a while. -caleb

ready for the fight ahead of me. -caleb

Update

Caleb said at the Dr's office that he wanted to post on the blog. I've been waiting for him to update.......... so I will give a brief update. The Dr's said that he is healing extremely well, and quickly & he is a week ahead of schedule on how well the Integra is healing, so he will have a skingraft on Tuesday. After that heals, he will get to begin rehab on the left leg. He is so ready for that....

I have had a great Christmas break so far. THANK YOU so much for your prayers & support. Having Caleb home & with the family has been wonderful. I have decided that I will post periodically, but this is Caleb's Road, and he is in GREAT shape & able to post anytime he feels like it, so, if you don't hear from me, that's why.

Laura Katherine, I have not forgotten & will not forget to pray for your dad. Please keep me updated.
Love, Tami

Please note Caleb's new address listed above. That's all!

Wednesday Appointment

Hi all,
Sorry it's been awhile since I've written, it's been busy. Tomorrow Caleb has a burn Dr appointment in Lincoln. Todd & I will be picking him up at Bennington (where he is staying) & taking him to Lincoln for the appointment. They will be checking the Integra. It looked really good last week & they are hoping to put a skingraft over it after 21 days. It had a good blood supply and was nice & pink.

I will update you as soon as I can. But it is the New Year holiday, so I'll do my best. Thank you to all the people who have commented on the Daily News article on Caleb. We are praying that God continues to use it to bring Glory to himself & we are mere vessels!!

Love, Tami

Home for the Holidays

As I write this, Caleb is visiting with a cousin Darrin Kraft. They have been very close growing up & I am glad they are getting some time together.

I had a wonderful Christmas having Caleb here. We were able to go to a Christmas Eve service with other family members & it was very moving. Just being with other believers & sharing in God's love towards us was a cool experience.

Caleb spent Christmas day with his dad & family & then stayed over at his dad's house all day on Friday also & came to our house again today. He plans to go back to his dad's later as his is planning to go to church with them. Then it will be back to Bennington for rehab on Monday.

Wednesday he will go back to the burn Dr to have his Integra looked at. After approx. 21 days they will do a skingraft on that leg. So far it looks really good. Todd & I got to see it when we took him to his last appointment. It has been filling in very nicely. The Integra will provide a "base " for the skingraft & padding for his prosthetic.

Please continue to pray for his left hand. We are asking God to increase the mobility there. Thank You for all your prayers & support. We really appreciate each & everyone of you!! Love, Tami

http://www.norfolkdailynews.com/main.asp?SectionID=3&SubSectionID=104&ArticleID=13959

Felt much better

By the time Caleb went to the Dr. he was feeling much better. Thank you Lord. I guess Moms still "fret" when their kids are ill, even when they are 20!!!!

Have a Merry Christmas!!!

Love, Tami

12/22/08 Update

As I write this, things are VERY chaotic at work. So it's taken me a while to get to posting on the blog. Levi is out at the house with Caleb & he said that Caleb is not feeling too well. I've cancelled his dental appointment for this afternoon & he had an appointment with the Dr already scheduled for today at 3:50. I'm sure the timing is good. Hopefully he's not coming down with something.

Tonight he will go to Kristin & Jim's for his rehab appointment for tomorrow. Grandpa Bob is taking him, THANKS!!! Then on Wed, Todd & I will pick him up at Kristin's & take him to Omaha for his appointment with his burn Dr. Then we will go to Rani's for Christmas.

I don't think I'll be writing much between now & then, so bare with me. I will try to update tomorrow after he goes to the Dr. today. Otherwise, I'm gonna try to just enjoy Christmas with the Fam.........

Have a VERY Merry Christmas!! Love, Tami

Update!

I know that Caleb has been getting in touch with friends as a few of you have come out to the house to visit & he got snowed in town last night with friends. On the way home from Lincoln he asked "Do I have a curfew?"

He was able to pull off a surprise being home with his brother & dad the first night he was here. He enjoyed that!

He will begin assessments at QLI in Omaha on Tuesday & then start therapy on Monday the 29th. He has to go back to the burn surgeon on Wednesday the 24th to have him look at his leg. In 3-4 weeks they expect to do a skin graft on that leg & then let it heal & get his prosthetic. We are continuing to pray for that leg & left hand. It still can't grip.

Sometimes I am in such awe that we have been Blessed enough to 1) have him alive & 2) have him for Thanksgiving in NE & 3) HOME for Christmas!! God has so richly poured out Grace on our family. When He promised to never leave us nor forsake us, I am so grateful!! You never know how you will respond when something like this happens to you or your loved one, but God has carried us through! THANK YOU Lord!! For everything!!!
Love, Tami

HOME!!!

Well, when Caleb's Dr came out to talk to us after surgery, he said "You can take him home!"

PRAISE GOD!!!

We went back to Madonna, packed up his room & stopped at the mall for a quick stop & CAME HOME!

I still can hardly believe he is here!!! So, if you are in Norfolk, Caleb will be here until either Sunday or Monday & then he will go to Jim & Kristin's to begin rehab. He might be here again the following weekend for the New Year, but HE IS HOME!!!!!

Thank you for all of your prayers!! Love, Tami

GREAT weekend!!

It's been a busy & GREAT weekend! Caleb got to get together with several of his friends & his little brother & hang out for the weekend. I was glad for him to get out of the hospital and hang out with friends. Unfortunately, he didn't give me many details to share with you. He is expecting his friend Eric tonight to hang out. Eric has been out of the country & unable to connect with Caleb in person. I know he is looking forward to seeing Eric.

Caleb went for a home visit today to his Aunt Kristin & Uncle Jim's house. The plan is to live with them while he is in OUT Patient rehab. They live in Bennington & have opened their home to him. We are so grateful to them & all they are doing. We will never be able to thank them enough!! They were able to go through the house with Caleb & determine what might need done. For example: hand rails in the bath tub. That sort of thing.

Caleb is so hoping & praying to be able to be discharged before Christmas. We are praying that God has His healing hand on the left leg & that it heals well enough to be home for the Holidays.

The next step in the recovery process is a skin graft on Wednesday. Todd & I are planning to go down there & of course, the weather is now calling for 4-6 inches of snow...RRRR...I normally love the snow & it's not that I don't, but it sure seems like we get the "fun" weather when we are suppose to go to Lincoln.

I don't have a lot more to add. But I am always in awe at how God has moved in our lives. We watched a show last night that made me think again of how close we came to spending our first Holidays without Caleb all together! Life is so fragile. I don't think we tell people that we love how much we love them nearly enough. Thank you all for your prayers & I am praying that everyone ready this has a most Blessed Christmas!!
Love, Tami

WOW!!

Caleb, thank you so much for posting on the blog. I think the pictures are marvelous!! You look GREAT, by the way! I am so proud of you & how you have leaned on God so well since Sept 20.

Caleb is asking for continued prayer concerning his left hand. He is still unable to make a fist with it. All the signs have been good, but there is no way to really tell what nerves may have been damaged. TIME will tell. This makes holding the crutches a bit challenging.

The left shoulder is stretching & moving well. He is pretty sure that he may not need surgery to relieve that skin graft. He also has good elbow movement. The right leg is GREAT! The chin is GREAT!

The left leg is still needing a skin graft & we are praying that it heals really well to be home in time for Christmas. As Caleb said, it is in the Lord's hands whether he is out or not.

God has been so good these last 3 months. Not that He isn't good all the time, but I know that He carried us through. I don't know how we would have made it without Him. I am praying that He has used this situation to strengthen your faith as He has ours.

Have a GREAT weekend!! Caleb is expecting to hang out with the guys this weekend & Todd & I are doing MUCH needed housework this weekend!!! Love, Tami

PS Laura Katherine, I am still praying for your father!!

Short Surgery

Well, Caleb is out of surgery. The Allograft had taken about 75%, which meant that there was bacteria there & the Integra (an artificial graft) would not have taken, so they did another Allograft. The Dr said that could end up being done 3-4 times. We are just sitting in his room now while he is waking up. They've left the splint on. Caleb feels like he is able to flex that leg a little straighter, so it appears to be helping.

God has been so good to us through the last 2 months & I want to take a moment to Thank Him. Please pray for the Grace to continue through this. We love you all. Love, Tami

Wow! Quick weekend!

Well, to start off, I apologize for slacking over the weekend! We walked into Caleb's room on Sunday to have him tell us that the Dr said he could have a pass for the afternoon and boy, was he ready to get out!! So Rani & Kevin came over from Omaha & we loaded up & took him to Valentino's and then to the mall. We didn't even purchase anything, it was just good for him to get out!!

Then we came back to Madonna & visited with Brendee, Shellee & Tyler. A friend Logan & girlfriend stopped over before we left too. From what Caleb said he had lots of visitors on Saturday. Mainly Levi & dad & family.

Caleb is really wanting to get out before Christmas, but we'll have to wait & see.

Tomorrow he is to go back to St. Elizabeth's for them to look at the left leg. They will make a decision on what type of graft they will do when he is in surgery. So Todd & I will go down either tonight or tomorrow weather depending.

Caleb's goal is to get back to Madonna on Tuesday afternoon & get up on his new prosthetic on the parallel bars. I really hope he gets to do that while we are there. I will take lots of pictures!!

Well, work is now in full swing & I gotta go! Have a GREAT day!! And always remember that God loves you more than you will ever understand!!!
Love, Tami

Oh it's good to hear from Caleb!!

Caleb, You are so welcome!! I love you very much 2 !!!!

Thank you for posting on your blog!! I went to add to it this morning & you gave a much better update than I could have. (At least more thorough) THANK YOU!!! I'm sure that people are glad to hear about your Road to Recovery from you.........and of course the picture helps 2.......

It's been a usual Friday at the Middle School. Things get a little crazy by the end of the week.

If I learn anything new, I will post it, or maybe Caleb will give you an update later again......

Love, Tami

Guess Who?

First of all, I want to thank my mother...she has remained strong for me and all of the readers of this blog through some of the toughest times of our lives. I love you mom!

Well today was a very important day on this road to recovery and an adequate independence for a return to school. I had my right residual limb casted for the first mold for creating a prosthetic! The third and it seems final phase of recovery has begun! That was in the morning, and this afternoon I went downstairs to their offices and their workshop. He had already finished the plaster mold of my stump. He told me that he has me labeled a k3 when it comes to prosthetics which means I'll be on legs that will allow me to do pretty much everything but run. After I get up on them and show that I can handle any surface, he will bump me up to a k4 which means if the insurance will cover them I'll get the running Ossur carbon fiber legs like the ones Oscar Pistorius has. I'm excited to get my first one sometime next week if things go as planned for them.

Thank you all for your continued support and prayers. I have learned through this how incredibly strong my support is. My family is stronger and closer than I had ever imagined and my friends have done the same. Please continue to seek the Lord and all that He has for us to learn through this process! I don't know how or why, but I know that this whole time and even injury has been worked into a good thing by our wonderful Savior.

caleb

LONG Day/Week

I just realized before I left work that I haven't posted anything. Caleb didn't have a lot to say earlier, so I have nothing new to report. Caleb if you read this, feel free to post something!! I've given you log in information!!! Anyway, it's been a long day & I am bushed!!! Love, Tami

Surgery went well

Surgery went well. It was really short compared to the other surgeries he's had. He was in his room before 11:30. The left knee still won't extend as well as it should, so they put it in a splint. We are just hanging out with Caleb in his room waiting for the Madonna van to come get him. We'll grab a bite to eat for the 3 of us & hang out with him a little longer. He's doing really well. Rani is suppose to come over from Omaha for a visit! There's really not a lot more to add, other than Thank You for all the prayers. Love, Tami

Thanks!

I would like to say Thanks to Zach &/or Charlie for posting the pictures for me. Doesn't he look GREAT!!! A little skinny, but he's doing his best to catch up. Charlie brought him some cereal to snack on & I know one night over the weekend he ate 4 bowls!! I am bringing some Marshmellow Maties with me when we go down for surgery!

Surgery #13 will be his Allograft. Please pray that it heals exceptionally well. I know he is getting ansy to get up on his prosthetics. They have delayed the caste of his right leg because of surgery, but hopefully soon I'll have pictures of him standing upright on his own accord!!

Due to the weather, snow suppose to be coming in, we are debating whether or not to go down tonight. Caleb has decided that he wants his own clothes, so we are bringing all of those with us.

Laura Katherine, I will continue to pray that your Dad is able to keep his knee!!!

Love, Tami

Allograft for Wed.

I talked to Caleb this morning & he is suppose to go to St. Elizabeth's to have his Allograft surgery on Wed. at 10:30. He will be spending the night over there for sure. We are praying that he is able to return to Madonna the next day. Please pray that everything goes well.

I brought back pictures from the weekend to work & he's looking so good! I am awed at how God moves.........THANK YOU !!!!!!!

Love, Tami

Laura Katherine

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. We will most definately keep him in our prayers. No matter how hard this is for you or him, if there's one thing I know, God doesn't leave us to go through these situations by ourselves. He loves you soooo much!!! Please take care & keep us posted on how your Dad is doing. Love, Tami

Another walk

Todd & I were able to take Caleb out for another walk on Saturday afternoon. It was chilly, but Caleb really likes getting out. Mr Hart stopped by right as we were leaving the building to go for our walk. Thanks. Tomorrow, Monday he will go to St E's to see the Dr & he will decide if Caleb's ready for an Allograft. If so & they are able to schedule it for Tuesday, they will. Todd & I will go down for the day on Tuesday if it happens.

Caleb is now taking an active role in his dressing changes. Actually, he takes all the dressing off. This helps him to control the pain. He has to do these twice a day & likes it MUCH better.

God has such good timing............we were getting ready to walk out the door to come home & his step sister Cassie texted him that they were coming over from Omaha. I know Charlie also visited on Saturday evening & Zach & parents were suppose to stop over. Today when I called, Great Gram Goodwater & Janice & Lloyd were over visiting. THANK YOU so much for visiting him when we are unable to be there. I do so appreciate this.

I also want to thank Pastor Matt for the message on Faith this morning! We need to be reminded to walk by faith............it's so easy to forget that!

Hebrews 11
1Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.

What a fellowship, what a joy divine,Leaning on the everlasting arms;What a blessedness, what a peace is mine,Leaning on the everlasting arms.
Refrain
Leaning, leaning, safe and secure from all alarms;Leaning, leaning, leaning on the everlasting arms.
O how sweet to walk in this pilgrim way,Leaning on the everlasting arms;O how bright the path grows from day to day,Leaning on the everlasting arms.
Refrain
What have I to dread, what have I to fear,Leaning on the everlasting arms;I have blessed peace with my Lord so near,Leaning on the everlasting arms.
Refrain

Thank you all so much for the love & support you've given us!!

Love, Tami

Long walk

Yesterday we were able to take Caleb for a long walk during half time. It was such a beautiful afternoon, no wind, nice temperatures, not a "normal" NE day. He really enjoyed getting out & we enjoyed the conversation with him. We also got to watch Iron Man with him. It actually wasn't too bad of a movie. It's so hard to find ones without tons of swear words, & naughty scenes........

How could I forget, we lit the Christmas tree that Todd & I brought to him. Caleb got to sleep in this morning until about 11:00.....who-hoo!!! Thanks Lori for coming on Sunday. I will tell Caleb to look for you all. I am thinking of you also & praying for you. If you need anything, please call.

We will go home later today to regroup for the next week. We have a motorcycle (Caleb's) to winterize & "stuff" to sort through, laundry, you know, the usual.............

Thank you all for the cards, thoughts, & prayers. God has been so good to us & we have felt His love surround us! Love, Tami

Sundays

Todd & I have just been hanging out with Caleb. We went to therapy this morning with him & to the cafeteria for lunch. We are planning to take a walk yet this afternoon. Caleb would like to get some outside time. We will be going back to Norfolk tomorrow late afternoon or early evening. So if anyone is free to come visit on Sunday, that would be great. Sundays appear to be a little more difficult as there are fewer visitors. Having visitors helps to keep his mind off of where he is, and sometimes the pains. Thanks Jason for coming last Sunday to visit.

Psalm 9:10 (King James Version)
10And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee.

Oops, the game is on, gotta go! Love, Tami

Happy Thanksgiving

We want to wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving!!! We are going over to Murdock to celebrate together. I am so excited to have Caleb "home" for the holiday!!

He has a really cool picture of him standing on his knees during therapy. We will try to get it posted on the blog for all to see.

Caleb does have a very specific prayer request. He is concerned about his left hand. The arm overall works pretty good, but the left hand his having trouble. He is unable to make a fist. They are trying to find the right nerve to stimulate with electric impulses, but haven't gotten it to do that yet. He is concerned about this & would appreciate your prayers.

We thank you for everything you have all done for us and most of all we are Thankful to the Mighty God we serve! I am so Thankful my son is alive and with us during this holiday!!

Love, Tami

Allograft

Caleb is scheduled to go to St Elizabeth's on Monday & see the burn Dr. He will decide if the left leg is ready to do an allograft. I got this info from the internet.

Allografts are tissues that are removed from one person and transplanted to another person. Allograft skin is used as a temporary burn cover, and will be rejected by the recipient within 21 days. However, until it is rejected, the allograft skin will provide many of the functions of healthy skin. Skin allografts will close a wound by providing a barrier against infection and fluid loss. They also reduce pain and promote the healing of underlying tissues. Skin allografts are used as a transitional treatment until autografting can permanently close the wound. Allograft skin is obtained from cadavers after consent is obtained from the next-of-kin. Tissue donors are carefully screened and tested for many transmissible diseases including hepatitis and AIDS.

If it's ready, he will have this done on Tuesday at St E's. He may stay a day or more, but we don't know for sure.

We are getting excited for Thanksgiving & being able to celebrate it with Caleb! Please continue to pray that his left arm nerves will wake up & that the left leg continues to heal well.

We have so much to be thankful for...............
Love, Tami

Wound Vac off

Caleb called me at 2:45 or so & said they took the wound vac off & are not planning to put it back on. This has been painful for him. Please pray the God would lessen the pain for him. Monday Dr Voight (sp) is suppose to look at the wound on Monday & put something on it to see if it grows & if it does then it is ready for a skin graft. I don't know much else & it's busy at work. Love, Tami

Wii

I just got off the phone with Caleb. He got to play Wii for recreational therapy today. He thought that was pretty cool. He also got to hang out with his dad and brother for the day. He really didn't have a lot more to say, so this is going to be a short update. Thank you again for all your thoughts & prayers!!! Love, Tami

Late

Sorry this is late. It's been a busy day on my part. Caleb had an opposite day. He said he was kinda cranky. Jason did come up to visit, but Caleb said he slept a lot, so he wasn't much for company. He was happy that he got to sleep in today. He did say that he was able to talk on the phone a lot. I'm not suppose to call him tomorrow until after 3:00, so I'm sure tomorrow will be a little later posting too.

I am getting exicited for Thanksgiving. I can't remember if I told people Caleb has a 4 hour pass so we are getting together with family in Murdock. I look forward to having him there for the Thanksgiving prayer!!!

Well, it's late & I have to get ready for work, so I'll close for now. We thank everyone in Vanderbilt for the wonderful care that was given to Caleb & Liz, he just about cried when he got the gift. Please keep in touch!!!

Love, Tami

Weekend

So far it's been a "lazy" Saturday for Caleb. He ate 4 pancakes, took a shower & is now having OT. They really work on the burns & massaging them & stretch them. He'll have that every day while he is here. He was told this morning that the Huskers are coming over next week to visit, so he's excited about that. Not sure how many visitors he will have today. Rani (sis) is on her way over from Omaha, and I think Aunt Brenda & Sue are coming too.

Todd & I are heading back home this early evening to regroup & get ready to go to work & go to church. It's looking to be a busy week. I will be trying to go visit my mom, clean the house, put up Christmas decorations, and cook for Thanksgiving. We will be back down for the Holiday weekend and when we know what Caleb's next surgery schedule will be, we will figure out from there. He will be having a skin graft on the left leg next, I think. We haven't been told how far into the future that may be.

Sunne, we will make contact with you to get Kiwi. (Kiwi is our Quaker Parrot.)

We are thankful that he is here. They have been doing such good burn care. I will do my best to keep up the blog in the next week, but please forgive me, if I get a little busy this next week. I am so Thankful for Thanksgiving this year. We should be thankful every day, but this year will be a little special. Have a GREAT day!!! Love, Tami

Mixed up Appointment schedule

This morning Caleb was suppose to go to St Elizabeth for an appointment with a surgeon to look at his left leg. We got there and there was miscommunication & there was no appointment. So we came back to Madonna where Caleb gets to go into the cafeteria & pick out his own meal. THAT was cool! He ate really well. Suzi (my sister) & her kids came to visit. Caleb had OT & PT. He has that for 2 hours in the morning & 2 hours in the afternoon. He is getting around so well. He has a wheelchair that he propels everywhere. He has a pair of gloves that help him grip the wheels.

He should get his left leg looked at by a Dr on Tuesday, and then hopefully we'll get an idea when they think they will be doing his skin graft. Today we talked to the social worker & we are looking at Caleb being here at Madonna for appr. 6 weeks. Then out patient. We are looking at him going to Immanuel Hospital in Omaha for out patient rehab & staying with Aunt Kristen & Uncle Jim.

It has been so good for him to be here. They are really getting him going on rehab!! They take very good care of his burns & are pushing him to do a little more each day. We are thankful that Caleb is doing so well.

Please keep praying for the rehab on his left arm/hand. We've had some positive input on what they think, but it is still has a ways to go. They are really concentrating in therapy on waking up those nerves.

Thank you so much for all of your prayers & support!! Love, Tami

Busy day!

It's been a busy day. Caleb had his first day of physical & occupational therapy. It's two hours in the morning & 2 hours in the afternoon. He was able to propel himself with his wheel chair from the other end of the building to his room. Next week they will begin electrical stimulation on his left hand. It's been extremely busy here so I will let you go..........Love, Tami

Visiting Hours

Visiting Hours are 6 am to 10 pm. (I'm pretty sure) They may put more restrictions on that if it gets to be too many visitors at one time, but I don't think most people there have that problem. So, I would suggest that you give Caleb a call & see if he knows if he will have very many people coming on whatever day you are thinking of coming down. He does love visitors though, especially after not getting to see people for so long. Love, Tami

Assessments Begin

Caleb is starting "over" & will go through the range of assessments today. They need to find out what he can do, what he can't do, where they want him to be & what he needs to do to get there.

Todd & I are at home "regrouping" to go back to Lincoln. He stopped in at Lincoln this morning at 7:00ish, talked to Caleb a little & then we headed home to unload Caleb's stuff from college & motorcycle, do some laundry, Todd to sleep a little, take care of mail & banking & all that "fun" stuff!! We will be heading back to Lincoln tomorrow. Caleb's dad & family & Uncle Scott & family will be going to visit today.

I will know more after I get ahold of Caleb. He did not answer his phone when I called, so I will try again later! Thank you again for all the support so MANY people have given this family. Caleb has been overwhelmed by your love. Even more so now as the "fog" has lifted. Thank you!!!

Love, Tami

Plane Ride

We are 18,000 feet in the air, on Vanderbilt’s airplane, heading to NE. At the very last minute they said that Caleb could have a passenger fly with him. Todd & I tried to adjust our plans in just a couple of minutes. It was not easy for him, but we knew I had to come with Caleb. I feel bad that the entire load was dumped on him for getting all of Caleb’s stuff at Lee & driving to NE alone. Please pray that God gives him an extra dose of Grace through this.
I am thankful that I am able to ride with my son to his new destination. God has been so good!! I’ll never be able to truly express the Grace & Love that he has poured out to us so generously. From saving Caleb’s life, to having him home for Thanksgiving, from giving me an amazing husband, to allowing me to be with Caleb during transport, and there are soooo many that it would be impossible for me to list them all.
Thank you all for your comments, prayers and encouragement. I do not know how people get through this life if they do not know the Lord. I know that He is knocking at someone’s heart who may be reading this. I challenge you to ask Him to show Himself to you. He will never let you down.
Love, Tami

Larry

Actually Larry, Caleb's step dad Todd knows your dad. And I think his dad (Marc) knows your dad as well. Both of them work for Nucor. One at the mill & one at Cold Finish. We have thought of your brother as we were hearing the news & have offered up prayers on his behalf. We look forward to meeting you at Madonna also. Tami

Last morning in TN

Please continue to pray for Caleb. The methadone fog has lifted & he is in much more pain. The emotional pain has "hit" Caleb & his heart is heavy. We talked & cried last night. Sometimes for what is unknown & scary, and sometimes for physical pain. He enjoyed the phone calls last night as we needed to go back to the apartment a little early to load up. We will be in NE sometime tomorrow. Grandpa, Rani & Levi will be in Lincoln today to be with him. We thank you for all the prayers for both of our journeys. Love, Tami

Last Full Day in TN!!

Well, today is Caleb's last full day in TN. It is a bittersweet Blessing. He has met such awesome people here at Vanderbilt. The care he has received is excellent. We hope you will keep in touch. We will never forget all that you've done for Caleb & taking such good care of him.

We have not gotten the final word as to flight time tomorrow. The physical/occupational therapy guy is going to come discuss range of motion and such sometime today. And we should be getting word of flight time sometime today also.

After Caleb is headed to NE Todd & I will go to Cleveland and load up his stuff & then head to Lincoln. I think Rani & Grandpa are the welcoming committee at Lincoln.

It will be so good to get him to NE. Thank you all so much for all your thoughts, prayers & support! A semi-new phase begins for Caleb & I am still clinging to the song by John Waller "While I'm waiting". We are not close to being done with this journey, but at least we'll be in good 'ole NE!!!! Please continue to pray for his left knee. It will still need skin grafting & there is the possibility that the muscles they've placed there do not do as well as he needs them to be.

Love, Tami

Adjusting

The last couple of days Caleb has had to adjust to no methadone. It has made the general overall uncomfortableness more intense. They are letting him have other pain medications, but his pressure ulcer on his backside is giving him more trouble. We've been trying to keep him on his side to relieve the pressure as much as possible. Please pray that God would just put His hand on Caleb's backside & help the ulcer heal.

This morning Paul & Darlia Conn (The President of Lee University & his wife) came to visit Caleb. He told Caleb if he wants to come back to Lee next fall, he will make it happen. He will also check into online classes for Caleb if he would be so inclined to take a few in January. To feel the genuine love from these two people was such a Blessing.

We will never be able to truly express our gratitude to Lee University. Everyone there has been so incredible. THANK YOU!!

Sometimes I am such in such awe of all that God is doing & has been doing in our lives since Sept 20. He has taken such amazing care of my son!! I know he has a long road ahead of him, but I know he will face the future with God's love & courage guiding him.

Thank You also to all the people at Vandy who have taken such good care of Caleb. I hope we will be able to maintain contact with you all over the years, but please know that we will forever be grateful to you all!!

Love, Tami

Quiet Day

It's been a quiet day. Caleb had a friend visiting and we went to the cafeteria. Otherwise, not much has gone on. He sure looks so good. He has no bandages on except a wound vac on his left leg. The chin looks WONDERFUL!!

He had visitors from Lee last night. And will have a few more visitors in the next couple of days. I don't have a lot to add. We are excited to get him home on Tuesday!!!

Thank you for all your support & prayers!!
Love, Tami

Madonna Address

Here is Caleb's address in Lincoln, NE

Caleb Baber
c/o Madonna Rehabilitation Hospital
5401 South Str.
Lincoln, NE 68506

We don't have a room number yet, but I will pass it along as soon as I get it!!

Love, Tami

Questions

Iwill attempt to answer some of the questions. Caleb's left leg has a wound vac. on it & he is awaiting a skin graft on that leg. Rather than to stay here & wait to have it done, Dr. Summitt has decided that he can go to Lincoln & begin therapy on the other leg & shoulder, then when the leg is ready for the graft, that can be done in NE. The left leg is looking good & the Dr is very optomistic that he will be able to keep it at the same length as the right.

I don't have an address yet for him, as soon as I get it, I will pass that information along. But on Tuesday (we think morning) he will be escorted by a burn team to the airport, on the plane, and all the way to NE. When he has actually left here, Todd & I will go to Cleveland & get his stuff & then head back to NE.

I need to go though, I need to make some phone calls solidifying plans on our end. I'll write more later.....

Love, Tami

We are Here!!

We made it to TN & got to see our Caleb!!! Grandpa left to go home, so we pray he has a safe journey. We are sitting here visiting about the sovereignty of God & how God is using this to bring Glory to His name!! I'll write more tomorrow & answer some questions. Have a GREAT evening!!! Love, Tami

TUESDAY!!!!

I just found out a little bit ago that Caleb will be flying to Lincoln, NE on Tuesday!!!! God is soooo good!! I just can't believe that it's happening!! And a week before Thanksgiving!!!

Soooo, if you are at Lee & want to visit Caleb, he will be in Nashville until Tuesday. Todd & I are heading out at 3:00am & should arrive there between 5-6pm. We will decide after we get there what day we are coming to Lee to get his stuff.

THANK YOU!! Lord!!!
Love,
Tami

BC/BS will cover

I've gotten word that BC/BS will cover a plane ride for Caleb to come home. That translates to 67% of the price. We do not know how much that will be at this time. The case manager is checking into that for us.

We are asking for prayer for the entire situation. We know that God is in control of each little detail & every contingency that arises. And I'm just plain gettin' excited to see Caleb again!!!

Love,
Tami

Good morning!

I've talked to the case manager & we are still waiting on BC/BS and then what Dr. Summitt thinks Caleb's needs will be to get to NE. There is a possiblity that Caleb would go to Rehab while he is awaiting his last skin graft. There are so many contingencies that it is easy for me to get a little overwhelmed, so I am trying to take One Day at a Time, and sometimes One Minute......I am cautiously optomistic about getting Caleb home next week, but we still need to continue to bathe this in prayer.

Psalm 37:4-5
4Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
5Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.

Andrea, Caleb is hoping to get to see Danny too!!! Tell him to stop on over!!!

Kyle, thank you for the information on ground transportation. I did mention this to the case manager. He thinks that Caleb will not be able to handle that long in transportation, but he will check with the Dr. We will let you know if they think it's something that he can do.

Thank you all for your prayers!!

Love, Tami

Extreme Joy & Hope!!

I am weeping as I write this. I talked to Caleb about 45 minutes ago & Dr. Summitt said it is POSSIBLE that we might be able to get Caleb to NE next week!!!!

PLEASE keep that left leg in prayer. He would go to Omaha first if he's released next week, there he would have his skin grafting done on his left leg rather than waiting in TN for it to heal enough to do that.

I've put in phone calls to his case manager & BC/BS insurance. I am waiting to hear from them so that we can be ready if Caleb is ready.

I KNOW God is hearing these prayers & I thank you from the bottom of my heart for keeping my son in your prayers!!!

Love, Tami

Surgery today....

I just got off the phone with Caleb & he said he is going into surgery today instead of Wed or Thurs. They are suppose to put the wound vac on his left leg & he wasn't sure if it was debridement or doing a fold?? He said his left left was causing him some pain, so please pray about that. I will try to call him later this afternoon.

Please continue to pray that his leg heals exceptionally well. It is key to getting him home.

Thank you again for all that people have done for us & on our behalf. The love we've felt is extraordinary!!!

Love, Tami

Keep Praying!!

I just got off the phone with Todd. He said when he called, Caleb was in Hydro & he spoke with Grandpa Bob. Caleb's leg is looking GREAT!! Let's keep praying that it heals exceptionally well & we can have that kid in NE for Thanksgiving!!!

Hooked Up to Nothing !!

Caleb told me this morning when we talked that he is hooked up to nothing. He has a drain in his chin, and his ostomy, but that's all. I told him he can escape easier that way......

He sounds really good in the mornings, so that's usually our longest conversation of the day. I couldn't understand last night if he was not able to get into his chair without the board or if he just didn't get to try yesterday.

One of my favorite verses in the Bible that has been sustaining me:
Isaiah 40:31
31But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

But oh my, that waiting is not easy sometimes!!
Love,
Tami

Renewed

Good Afternoon!
Todd & I were able to go to church this morning & be renewed. He is such a Mighty God!! A song that we sang this morning that really ministered to my heart was:
God will make a way
God will make a way
Where there seems to be no way
He works in ways we cannot see
He will make a way for me
He will be my guide
Hold me closely to His side
With love and strength for each new day
He will make a way
He will make a way
By a roadway in the wilderness
He'll lead me
And rivers in the desert will I see
Heaven and earth will fade
But His word will still remain
He will do something new today.

I am trusting that he will give all of us the strength we need as we travel this path He has placed us on. He has brought us so far already. He won't leave us there nor forsake us!!!

On a lighter note. When I talked to Caleb a little bit ago, he wanted me to tell you all that he is able to get out of his wheelchair & into bed without help!! Today he is going to be trying to get into the chair from the bed unassisted.

I am getting excited to go back down & see him. I can't wait to see how well his chin looks!!

We also wanted to Thank All of you that have helped us in so many ways! We have been truly Blessed by the genuine LOVE we have felt from so many people! Thank You!!

On a foot note, some have asked about posting comments. Just click on the word Comments at the end of the post for that day & then there will be a box to type in whatever you'd like to say. I usually post them as anonymous & then just sign my name...I hope that helps!!

Love, Tami

Visited with friends

Talked to Caleb a few times today. He was pretty tired each time. He said that Allsion Casey & her roommates came to visit. When we talked to him tonight he was playing dominoes with Grandma & Grandpa. He thought Grandpa was winning........ Grandma is heading home tomorrow, I believe. Todd & I are heading out EARLY Thursday morning with the intention of staying until he comes home, to NE.

He thinks he'll have another surgery toward the beginning of the week so please pray with us, that things look GREAT!

I pray that the Lord holds each of you close under his wing as he has done for Caleb.

Love,
Tami

2-3 more surgeries

Hi!

I am disappointed as I write this. Dr. Summitt told Caleb & Grandparents that Caleb will need 2-3 more surgeries for his leg. He won't close it up until he's sure it's ready, which is what we want, but that could keep him from being in NE by Thanksgiving...........he's been having a surgery a week since the crisis is over.

So, I am asking for prayer that God would grant Caleb incredible healing to be in NE by then. I feel selfish asking for that, God has done so much already, but it's still my request......so to all who are praying out there, we are asking God to work another miracle.

Thank you again for all support we've been given.....we love you all........

Love,
Tami

Forgotten info

I realized sometime this afternoon that I forgot to mention a few things this morning. Caleb got the dressing taken off his chin yesterday. Grandma said it looked marvelous!!! He also got one of the tubes from his back taken out. That's where they got the muscle for his flap surgery on his shoulder. He can use the slide board to get to his chair.

He's been very tired the last few times I've talked to him. So I don't know a whole lot more.

Thank you all for the many, many prayers!!!!

Love,
Tami

Breakfast was getting cold

Good mornin' I got a little busy at work & realized that I forgot to post. This morning when I called Caleb, he said he thought he was getting a cavity.....Bummer.....and then he said he needed to let me go because breakfast was getting cold!!! Must be feeling better!!! Not much else to report on.

Thanks again for all the thoughts, cards, prayers, and everything else offered up on our behalf!!

Love, Tami

Real Food

Todd talked to Caleb over lunch & he was VERY excited. He was able to eat some real food, so they were bringing on the Chicken Nuggets!!!

He sounded good when I talked to him over my lunch too. Please continue to pray that his left leg heals exceptionally well.

He was getting ready to teach Grandma how to use the computer. He was confident that she'd be able to pick it up. I am so glad he is having this time with his grandparents. I know that being able to get to know my Grandma Goodwater on a deeper level has been such a Blessing!!

I am getting excited to go back to TN to see him. This next week won't go fast enough. Hours are getting cut back at Nucor & so Todd needs to stay to work Mon-Wed & then we will take off for TN after that. Thank you for all your prayers. They mean a lot to all of us!!

Love,
Tami

Chillin'

I have talked to Caleb this morning. We didn't get to talk too long. I am at work & things can get pretty busy in here, but he said things were going good.

I wanted to thank the Meadow's for their soup fundraiser & also Wyld Life for their bowling fundraiser. We can never thank people enough for all they have/& are doing for us. It is exciting to watch God move in so many ways & through so many people.

THANK YOU!!!!
Love,
Tami

Out of surgery

Grandma called & Caleb is out of surgery. They were able to close the chin, but not the left leg completely. Dr. Summitt is optomistic that he will be able to keep the left knee though.

It's crazy busy here at work, I don't have time to go into more. THANK YOU for your prayers!!! Keep praying about the knee though........

Love,
Tami